sunsets

sunsets
with flowers and sunset

Monday, October 19, 2009

sick

dont you hate when you get sick.. ugh it makes you just want to find a deep dark hole and hide waiting for the sickness to go away right well thats how mercedez and i feel today...ugh dr appt for baby is at 215 and i wish it would get here fast uh i feel like crap talk you up later

Thursday, September 17, 2009

bed






Its so funny to walk into witchietatche ( thats ute for little bird, mercedez given name) room and see what shes been doing all day long. i know she loves to play with dolls but not like this






oh well i love her to death. just a cutie

Monday, August 10, 2009

dads poem

A Dads Poem Her hair was up in a pony tail, her favorite dress tied with a bow. Today was Daddy's Day at school, and she couldn't wait to go. But her mommy tried to tell her, that she probably should stay home. Why the kids might not understand, if she went to school alone. But she was not afraid; she knew just what to say. What to tell her classmates of why he wasn't there today. But still her mother worried, for her to face this day aloneAnd that was why once again, she tried to keep her daughter home. But the little girl went to school eager to tell them all. About a dad she never sees a dad who never calls. There were daddies along the wall in back, for everyone to meet. Children squirming impatiently, anxious in their seats One by one the teacher called a student from the class. To introduce their daddy, as seconds slowly passed. At last the teacher called her name, every child turned to stare. Each of them was searching, a man who wasn't there. "Where's her daddy at?" she heard a boy call out. "She probably doesn't have one," another student dared to shout. And from somewhere near the back, she heard a daddy say, "Looks like another deadbeat dad, too busy to waste his day." The words did not offend her, as she smiled up at her Mom. And looked back at her teacher, who told her to go on. And with hands behind her back, slowly she began to speak. And out from the mouth of a child, unique. "My Daddy couldn't be here, because he lives so far away. But I know he wishes he could be, since this is such a special day. And though you cannot meet him, I wanted you to know. All about my daddy, and how much he loves me so. He loved to tell me stories he taught me to ride my bike. He surprised me with pink roses, and taught me to fly a kite. We used to share fudge sundaes, and ice cream in a cone. And though you cannot see him. I'm not standing here alone. "Cause my daddy's always with me, even though we are apart I know because he told me, he'll forever be in my heart" With that, her little hand reached up, and lay across her chest. Feeling her own heartbeat, beneath her favorite dress. And from somewhere here in the crowd of dads, her mother stood in tears. Proudly watching her daughter, who was wise beyond her years. For she stood up for the love of a man not in her life. Doing what was best for her, doing what was right. And when she dropped her hand back down, staring straight into the crowd. She finished with a voice so soft, but its message clear and loud. "I love my daddy very much, he's my shining star. And if he could, he'd be here, but heaven's just too far You see he was a policeman and died just this past year When airplanes hit the towers and taught Americans to fear. But sometimes when I close my eyes, it's like he never went away." And then she closed her eyes, and saw him there that day. And to her mothers amazement, she witnessed with surprise A room full of daddies and children, all starting to close their eyes. Who knows what they saw before them, who knows what they felt inside. Perhaps for merely a second, they saw him at her side. "I know you're with me Daddy," to the silence she called out. And what happened next made believers, of those once filled with doubt. Not one in that room could explain it, for each of their eyes had been closed. But there on the desk beside her, was a fragrant long-stemmed pink rose. And a child was blessed, if only for a moment, by the love of her shining star. and given the gift of believing, that heaven is never too far.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

fun with grandma




























ok here are some of the photos i took at moms with mercedez and flowers





it was so fun even though the weather wasnt good.















but im really happy at how it all went it was rainy weather and windy too but i had fun


mercedez did too she loves grandma and grandpa so much.



















Friday, May 15, 2009

Supprise supprise

Big news well important big news today may not be important to you but it is to me. MERCEDEZ WENT POTTY LIKE A BIG BIG GIRL TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
I was at work when Andy texted me and asked if i had changed mercedez' diaper today i said no she was still sleeping when i left for work at 730 so i asked him why he said that when he got up there was pee in the toilet i originaly thought he was kidding so i asked what one it was hers! he said it was full i came home and whoop dee doo there it was! im so happy soon there will be noooo more diapers!!!!!!!!!!! ok thats my big news have fun everyone

Friday, May 8, 2009

Monday, March 16, 2009

my life

Wow its been such a crazy past couple weeks. Work is fun i just got moved to days last week so i work a set schedual 8 to 4 in the after noon but whats good about it is that if my reliefe shows up in good time i usually get to go home about half an hour early so thats nice. then i have just been up to no good haha ya right. i wish sometimes. mercedez is getting crazy good at singing and dancing and her favorite song to sing is twinkle twinkle little star. we went to my grandpas house the other day that was fun she helped me and my two uncles play rockband wow how interesting, ive been working on throwing ALOT of stuff away and all that. im not really excited about spring cleaning but someone has to do it. so i have been working on it in between working a 6 day week and also i have a job offer so im thinking on taking it for the summer. that would be great i think. im a little worried about the rigs but that will pass if andy can find a good rig to go to i have come to terms with him possibly moving away for a couple weeks at a time but ya got to do what you got to do. sad i know but ya. i have also been loosing friends right and left my friend mia wow thats tough thats the hardest one to deal with, we have been friends since we worked at mcdonalds together and he is just being a terd right now and he wont listen to me and my feelings on how hes been treating me and the same with my friend virginia i mean really what is so important that you cant talk to your kids' godmother. but yet you always talk about me. she ignores me because she got married to some jerk who treats her like crap and he also caslls his ex and tells her he loves her and blah blah blah. oh well screw her is waht i have come to . i am so done with people i care about who dont show me the same thing so ya. forget them. i guess until they want to show me that they care for me. well i have rambled on and on so i will ttyl

Monday, March 9, 2009

just me

Wow has it been a long time or what? I have just started getting more hours at work and its been okay. i work mondays through saturdays 8-4pm its alright i do kinda work with a jerk sometimes but its a job. i also work nights once in a while only when they need me so this week i am working 1 night 330 to 10 thats when we close. and then i am also going to the gym now its my seccond day today. and i got two people who will be dragging me along ha i guess they are my inspiration ha ha. i wish. no i just need to loose the weight so i figured when i got the invites i jumped at the opprotunities. ha. i do like working though with jody she is da bomb thats exploded multiple times ha. (i have also noticed i have been saying ha alot lately ha ha) what a dork i am but you know what i love it.ha oh well i will start to post my pics of clean house every week maybe twice a week ha. ya. dont forget the post i put with the gift.

Saturday, February 21, 2009

FUN

8 Things About MeHere are the rules:
1)post these on your blog.
2)answer the six "8" items.
3)let each person know by leaving them a comment on their blog.


8 Favorite tv shows
1) CSI
2) BAD GIRLS CLUB
3) HEROES
4) DAYS OF OUR LIVES
5) REAL WORLD
6) WITHOUT A TRACE
7) NCIS
8) LAW AND ORDER CI OR SVU


8 things I look forward to
1) READING
2) SEEING MY HUSBAND AND MERCEDEZ WHEN I GET OFF WORK
3) LOOSING WEIGHT
4) MY KIDS BIRTHDAY
5) MY HUSBANDS BIRTHDAY
6) MY BIRTHDAY
7) MY VACATION
8) CHRISTMAS


8 favorite places to eat
1) HOLLOW MOON
2) MCGRATHS FISH HOUSE
3) WIMPYS
4) CAMPING FOOD
5) WINGERS
6) OLIVE GARDEN
7) CHUCKARAMA
8) LITTLE CEASERS


8 Things on my wish list
1) BEING ABLE TO HAVE A CLEAN HOUSE AT A SNAP OF A FINGER
2) A DAUGHTER THAT DOES WHAT YOU ASK
3) A HUSBAND THAT CLEANS RIGHT WHEN YOU ASK
4) WEIGHT LOST
5) TO BE MORE CREATABLE
6) TO HAVE MY DEGREES
7) TO NEVER WORY ABOUT MY FAMILY DURRING THE ECINOMIC CRUNCH
8)TO HAVE TRUE FRIENDS



8 People I tag
1)TRISTA
2)TAWNEY
3)MEAGAN
4)AMANDA
5)...
6)...
7)...
8)...


handmade

Ok i saw this on tristas blog and it sounded like fun. Here's how it works-the first 5 people to leave a comment on this post will receive, at some point during the year, a FANTASTICAL handmade gift from me. What it will be and when it will arrive is a total surprise! The catch is that you must participate as well-before you leave your comment here, write up a pay it forward post on your blog to keep the fun going. Then come back, let me know you're going to play, and sit back and anticipate the arrival of your gift! Remember that only the first 5 comments will receive a gift from me, so be quick!"This offer does have some restrictions and limitations:1. I make no guarantees that you will like what I make!2. It'll be done this year (hopefully sooner than later.)3. You will have no clue what it is going to be.C'mon, you know you wanna play!

Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Jeri and Dillons Wedding





















Ok so some of you saw in the standard that some people were getting married on valentines day well my cousin got married it wasnt the funnest day of my life family on my side is really rude sometimes and they dont seem to care but i got some of the photos and i would like to show them off



Sunday, February 15, 2009

valentines

25 things about my valentine.
Basically the same rules as the "25 Random Things" list, but with a sappy, mushy twist. Send to 25 people...and don't forget to send it to YOUR Valentine. Happy V-Day.

1. My valentine loves cars

2. My valentine hunts

3. My valentine understands me

4. My valentine is always stubborn

5. My valentine loves his family

6. My valentine has 2 tattoos and is planning on getting more

7. My valentine loves hanging out with his friends

8. My valentine loves me no matter what

9. My valentine gets me guns for presents

10. My valentine hates seeing me hurt

11. My valentine is always being called by work

12. My valentine hates the shows i love

13. My valentine has taught me to cook

14. My valentine is verry protective

15. My valentine is my best friend

16. My valentine is a mechanic

17. My valentine always wants the best for us

18. My valentine loves his daughter

19. My valentine never takes his vacation

20. My valentine has had a hard life

21. My valentine always gets through it

22. My valentine hates pictures taken of him

23. My valentine has a camaro

24. My valentine is thebest

25. My valentine is deffinatly my true love

Saturday, February 14, 2009

love is in the air

Well HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!!! wow im going to be having a verry busy day. I am going to my cousins wedding today. yay jeri!!! and my other friend virginia is gettin married too but i cant be there. oh well . i was so supprised yesterday andy bought me a red rose and a card. i wasnt suppose to see it until i got home but he gave it to me at work . im so happy

Sunday, February 8, 2009

BABY TAG












1- Where were you when you first found out you were pregnant?i was at my friend krishelles house i was going to go party but i felt sick so we went and got a test


2- Who was with you? krishelle, matt, phill, clint i had to get everyones opinion


3- How did you find out that you were pregnant? home test then i made an appt


4- What was your first reaction to finding out you were pregnant? um babe im pregnant


5- Who was the first person you told? well actually told was andy but clint krishelle matt and phill knew first


6-Did you plan to get pregnant? we wanted to but we werent trying


7- Did you tell everyone else right away? ya why not


8-Was everybody happy for you? ya


9- Did you go out and celebrate? nope


10- Did you want to find out the sex? yes cuz we were debating what we were going to have


11- What was the sex? girl


12-Did anyone throw you a baby shower? Yes karen and work did then family did


13- If yes, who? haha the people above


14- Did you get any outfits at the baby shower that you just knew you weren't going to put on your baby? nope they were all cute clothes


15- How much weight did you gain? wow


16- Did you lose all of the weight that you gained? no but im working on it


17- Did you get a lot of stretch marks? ya im not to happy about it


18- What did you crave the most? crab yes i know bad but i craved it and my husband gave some to me in small moderation


19- Did you crave anything crazy? not really


20- Who or what got on your nerves the most? just people telling me what to do

21- Were you married at the time? Yes


22- Did you have any complications during your pregnancy? nope it was all easy peasy


23- Where were you when you went into labor?i was late so i chose when to have her


24- Did your water break? no they broke me


25- Who drove you to the hospital? well andy was working so my friend at the time karen drove me


26- Did you go early or late? i was 1 week late


27- Who was in the room with you when you gave birth?well the nurses andy and dr nolte


28- How long were you in labor for?18 hours but i had complications


29- Did you have any drugs for the pain?ya come the 16th hour when i started to push


30-Did you go Natural or have a c-section? i had to have a csection becauses she was stuck and turned in a wierd way and i was pushing and i was only 3 cm. plus her heart rate kept droping and i was having contractions on top of contractions


31- What was your first reaction after giving birth? shes white haha i was on drugs


32- How big was the baby(s)? 7lbs 6 oz 21 inches long


33- Did your Husband cry? nope he was laughing just like everyone in there


34- What did you name the baby(s)? Mercedez Shauna Betts


35- Does her name have any significant meaning? well all the names we wanted were already named in either his or my family and we didnt want to copy names so that was the next best thing that fit and i just loved shauna so i had to go with that for her middle name


36- Did you have any visitors? lots


37- Did the baby(s) have any complications? just her heart rate that i know of


38- How old is your baby today? she will be 2 years in 2 and a half weeks


39- When is the next one(s) coming? not having another one


40-If you could, would you do it all over again?yes it was all worth it

Monday, February 2, 2009

25 things about you

1. i work for ellies in roosevelt
2. i love hunting elk and deer.
3. i love to read anything.
4 i have a myspace, myyearbook, blogger, cafemom, uintahbasinmommies, uintah high school alumni, meez, and lots of other accounts
5. i love music its my life who cant live without a song that means something to you.
6. i am verry worried about the oil fields. i am a roughnecks wife and love it
7. i know how to play the guitar, and piano
8. i love getting hair bows for my daughter
9. i never went on a honeymoon
10. i want to be a teacher
11. i cant stand drama
12. i love watching reality shows like bad girls club, real world, any show on vh1
13. i love watching csi, without a trace, heroes, days of our lives, ncis, dont forget the lyrics, house
14. I have 2 tattoos and I want many more.
15. i met my husband at a party
16. my favorite food is spaghetti and also crab legs
17. i had a cleft pallet and hair lip when i was born
18. i had to have a nose surgery because of my cleft pallet and hair lip
19. i have had my apendix taken out
20. i have one daughter and love her to death
21. i love acting in the theathre.
22. im addicted to shopping
23.i hate cleaning ALL the time
24.im adopted into a white family
25. i am puerto rican and ute indian and dont know how to speak either language

Now you write 25 things about you and tag 25 of your friends.

Saturday, January 31, 2009

dads

1 . Where did you meet your husband?at my friend clints house

2.How long did you date before you got married?not that long like maybe 2 months before i got engaged and then 6 months we got married

3. How long have you been married? almost 4 years

4. What does he do that surprises you? i dont know he texts me when he is workin

5. What is your favorite feature of his?his back

6. What is his best quality? being a good dad and protective

7. Does he have a nickname for you? babe

8. What is his favorite food? no clue

9. What is his favorite sport? hunting

10. When and where did you first kiss? the first night we met

11. What is your favorite thing to do as a couple? hunting

12. Do you have any children? a 2 year old

13. Does he have any hidden talents? not that i know of

14. How old is he? 26

15. Who said I love you first? dont know

16. What is his favorite music? rock mostly

17. What do you admire most about him? he is a great father and husband to us both

18. What is his favorite color? i think green

19. Will he read this? no

20. Who will I tag next? any one

Saturday, January 24, 2009

friend

ok so sometimes i get confused. i dont know what to do about the friends i have. i wish i could stay mad at them but for one it took about 2 years almost for me to not be mad at him anymore. the other im just frustrated with she tells me oh ya i will talk to you ill call yada yada yada. and i never get any results i try to talk to her but i never get anything but oh im too busy i havnt had time. ya right i now for a fact that she is always out partying never with her kids kinda chick. i dont know maybe im just frustrated its so hard to get out there and make new friends that dont just string you around. sometimes i feel lonely. i enjoy talking to the family but sometimes i feel like i need someone i can be myself with party have fun just talk whatever.

Saturday, January 17, 2009

baby shower


well thats one of 2 baby showers this year. and who knows how many else i will have this year. Im so excited for kaylas baby to come. then amys oh and the wedding in the middle of them both ha. im happy that this year i will not be celebrating valentines by myself cuz i will be at a wedding!!!! yay. well the baby shower went great yesterday considering that it was a busy busy day. im still recovering from it all but everyone loved the baby shower.

Thursday, January 15, 2009

just talking

wow how crazy has life been? Well i got a job at ellies its a gas station in roosevelt utah. wow it is so much more relaxing than working at checker auto. and its only 3 days a week not bad only nights. and christmas wow. new years was fun i guess. and in may im going down to st george. thats going to be fun i get to see my adorable nephewe!!!! and sister inlaw and brother inlaw. im excited mercedez wo that kid is crazy growing like no other. i dont know what to do it feels like i buy clohtes for her but she grows out of them so fast. oh well. and Tawney what were you thinking letting Nick shave his goate haha oh well. wowo ya anyway i think thats all for now.......

About Me

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Hi im Lisa. I am 25 and have the best family in the world!!! My daughter is ending her first year of head start im so proud of her she knows how to spell her name and is working on writing it, she knows her numbers and some ute language they also have taught her some sign language. My wonderful husband is working in PA state and is doing an amazing job, he has just got a promotion im so proud of him. I am really into vintage things and hunting. Spending time with my family is the thing i love the most.

My Favorite Anythings

  • Movies
  • Theatre
  • Playing the piano
  • Music
  • Rock and Roll
  • Twilight book series